The best part of a family vacation is being with the family. Being with the family is much more relaxing if you choose the right kind of holiday trip. Here are some pros and cons of popular family vacation types.

The ocean

Nothing sounds better than the ocean when you're sitting in a cramped office. You dream of sunny days, cool breezes, and beautiful waves. The vacation dreamer, however, needs to reflect a little more before loading the minivan with boogie boards, wet suits, snorkeling gear, and sand toys. For example, your two-year old eating sand rarely makes the list of highlights, nor does the lifeguard diving in to save your 10-year old son from drowning followed by you getting chewed out for not supervising him.

Just because the ocean's for you doesn't mean it's for your family. If, however, you're willing to prepare for and accept the reality of cleaning sand from body crevices and are capable of monitoring multiple children, then give the beach a go. If not, maybe you should wait until they get older.

The mountains

The ocean vs. mountain vacation debate rages on at travel agencies throughout the world. Mountains are great for getting away from crowds, unless you choose a mountain vacation spot that's crowded. If it's not summer, it will probably be cold. That being said, the scenery of a mountain vacation coupled with the opportunity for outdoor activities makes the mountains a great family vacation spot. Keep in mind, however, that just because you enjoy five-mile hikes doesn't mean you're five-year old won't start whining after three minutes of walking. While on your family mountain retreat, be cognizant of your children's needs by alternating intense days with easy days.

Camping

There's nothing like getting away from civilization, unplugging, and unwinding in nature. Camping is a great way to spend quality time with the family—if you're prepared. Older kids should be given specific assignments while camping. Younger kids should be supervised closely. Kids’ nap times and other essentials to family harmony should be noted before embarking on a camping trip. Be realistic when bringing the family camping. It will be fun, but it will also be a lot of work.

Amusement parks

Of the four common vacation types, amusement parks cause the most excitement and cost the most money. Amusement parks can also be crowded, cause more irritation, and be the catalyst of family arguments. Amusement parks are best enjoyed as a family during off-peak days—a Wednesday in October, for example. If you can't visit during off-peak days, consider a multi-day pass and a nearby hotel to rest at during the busiest (and hottest) part of the day.

If you keep in mind that the main purpose of a family vacation is to unite the family, then any of these vacation types will create lasting, positive memories.